This column is for both Buck ONeil and me. After a shining weekend of celebrating Bucks unparallel life, heres one more salute to a lifetime of good deeds and better smiles. I think this may also help me move on to a place thats going to feel all too empty around Kansas City, the void left by such a distinguished and graceful figure.
Walking through the halls of the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum Friday to pay Buck my final respects, it was evident just how much influence he still waves even in passing. The museum was flooded with patrons to visit Buck as soon as the building opened in the morning. The Jazz District, usually quiet during weekday hours, bustled all day. By the time most of the city had gotten out of work for the weekend, the line wrapped around the corner and down the block. An astounding 10,000 patrons passed through the gates during the course of one day.
People of all colors, races and age snaked their way through the halls of Bucks dream, a museum dedicated to a brand of baseball once forgotten. Black and white, male and female, old and young walked together, reminiscing about their own Buck stories. That point glaringly stood out all week like a dancing fastball by Bucks one-time teammate Satchel Paige. It wasnt just one group of people, one segment of the population, with personal memories of how Buck touched them. Everyone had a story. Everyone was moved at some point.
Ive got my own story. Spring training 2004, Surprise, Arizona. As a newbie talk-show host to Kansas City, attending my first Royals camp, I spotted Buck sitting on an outdoor patio of the team offices watching a matinee game. I needed to say hello, introduce myself to a living legend. Damn, I had hit the jackpot, no one else around. I debated three or four times if maybe I should catch him after the game or sometime else during the week as to not disturb him during the game.
I quietly approached Buck, slid over to him with my hands in my pockets. I nervously introduced myself, stammered through some idle greeting and figured I would quickly shuffle away. Of course, there is no impersonal, brief meeting with Buck. He spent ten minutes talking baseball, talking Royals and asking me about how I enjoyed my new hometown. How easy would it have been to send along a hello, thanks and good bye and go back to watching his game? Nope. He acted like I had been around as long as he had, paying me with respect and grace. IÕll never forget it.
In regards to his Hall of Fame snub last spring, instead of allowing anger to overtake us, lets find compassion like Buck did. In place of frustration for whats missing, lets find appreciation for what exists. Replace love for hate, kindness for hostility. If anything, lets learn from the man who touched every corner of this city, this region, this country.
There are not enough adjectives in my online thesaurus to adequately describe Bucks life. As violence and anger march through our daily headlines, Buck gave us an alternative. He gave us an example to follow, in which peace, tranquility and positive energy could overcome hardships and break down barriers. As Buck famously said on my show not long ago, -Its the time for loving. Mmm hmm.- Love. Thats the lasting essence of John Jordan -Buck- ONeil. Consider this one more Valentines Day card.
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